I am somewhat frustrated. I find so many individuals within the horse industry displaying a personal lack of integrity. In their business dealings, how they talk despicably about others who disagree with them. I understand that not one of us is perfect, however, the civility of a civilized nation comes from the individual and I feel we are so losing that in the horse world. I recognize that it has been here and always will be, just wish that we all could look in the mirror once in a while and see if we are living with civility for others.
“Integrity” ‘An uncompromising adherence to a code of moral, artistic, or other values: utter sincerity, honesty, & candor: avoidance of deception, expediency, artificiality, or shallowness of any kind’
“Respect” ‘To show consideration for, to avoid intruding upon, to notice with special attention, to regard to consider, to view, treat or consider with some degree of courtesy’
“Trust”‘ Confidence; a reliance or setting of the mind on the integrity, veracity, justice, friendship,or other sound principle of another person or thing’
I currently work and have worked for large corporations. I also worked in the horse industry for 10 years before working for corporations. I agree there is a certain lack of integrity in the horse world and honest horse people are rare. Many people work in the horse industry because they couldn't get a job any where else. Flame suit on!
I received what I consider one of the greatest compliments the other day. Someone had come to look at one of our horses for sale and they said that the horse was exactly as I had described her. I thought that was pretty cool
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I have seen both ends I suppose. I see both those who seem to be in the horse industry because they cannot do anything else and those who are in the horse industry because they are hardworking, strong, trustworthy, admirable people who are passionate about what they do.
In my experience those who truly lack integrity do not get far and do not earn the respect of whatever communities they may choose. Those who are worthy of respect usually have shown themselves to be so. There are plenty of dishonest people in the horse world and the non-horse world alike; horses happen to bring out either the worst or the best in people though so perhaps dishonesty is often more visible.
I do somewhat wonder what you are trying to achieve in your post though- do you have a solution to propose or are you looking for an answer to this issue? Just a vent? It confused me a little I guess.
I think a lot of what bothers you could also be found in other industries, but I do think the horse business, especially buying and selling is entirely "buyer beware".
When I buy a horse I ask very pointed questions, some of which I repeat several times to get every detail possible.
That being said, the horse professionals I work with on a day to day basis are all fantastic people whom I trust, so I guess there are people from one end of the spectrum to the other.
Why I posted this is because I am finding that the big business and individuals in horse industry seem to loose the fundamental requirement in any relationship and that is the integrity. I know so many who have their integrity in tact, however, when I have to deal with the upper crust integrity seems to be not there. Even the simple task of answering an email or telephone call is ignored........
Lack of personal integrity carries over into how a rider presents themselves, how a trainer presents themselves and how a judge renders scores.
Well said, Well Schooled. It is the new generation's responsibility to "take the power back!" we can alter this industry through forums like this and with our own business dealings. No more barn gossip. No more shady deals. No more dishonesty. I'm taking it back!
This is all so true which is very sad. We had so much problems with farriers not calling back and not doing a good job. The horse industry is in pretty bad shape in the fundemental requirements in a relationship. We had major probles with one of our horses and could not deal with him anymore. We were told by other in the business to keep quiet about it and just not tell anything about his craziness and just say that we were selling him because we needed something better fitted for my needs. It was wrong. We need to change.
Yeppers, that there lack of interity sure throws alot of manure on our industry.
It is going to take individuals who still have a backbone to stand up and be heard, to not be a bullied coward. The horses have no voices, we humans, their partners need to tell it like it is and take no bs from anyone.
There are so many shonky workers out there in the horse industry, prevelent in Australia are the newest wave of "barefoot trimmers".
Anyone can pick up a file and clippers and trim a horses hoof. They then put their hand out and ask for $65. Doesnt mean they have done a good job. It is a common complaint from horse owners in my area and it most certainly turns me off the idea of allowing this practice to be done on my boy.
I have also been flat out lied to when attempting to both buy and SELL a horse at different times. People are in it for a quick buck and it means lying to get away with it, they will.
Just means the honest horse people have to be on our toes :)
Integrity does seem to be a lost virtue. Greed and pride seem to rule today, and that is sad. I am a business owner and I base my business off of intergrity and honesty, for I feel you can't have one without the other. My reputation is on the line with every student I coach and every horse I train and sell. I'm not about to do something to screw that up.
Sadly your getting up into the age where kids have no morals. So no morals and no values leads to shady people coming up in the industry. I no for one, I work with a guy, who really is best kind. But sometimes he annoys the heck out of me. His parents never taught him any manners or cared so he is sometimes extremely rude. It's not really his fault, he was never taught any better(actually he's starting to get better!). Luckily I call that minor. At least he knows some discipline and can put in an honest days work. I know kids who have no discipline at all, no work ethic and would lie/black mail/ heat, because there parents never taught them any better.
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One must ask, who are the role models? Certainly that is the element that actually molds individuals. Where is the integrity in the churches, schools, law enforcement, etc., when you have the child molestation etc., coming out of these institutions.
I must defend the generations. I agree that they are some problems with today's youth, but they take the heat from adults for nearly everything. My students have all been incredibly well behaved and sportsmanlike. Middle aged women have been the biggest enemy so far. I am not saying that kids do no wrong, but they shouldn't take the wrap for an industry that is so entrenched in dishonesty.
I have to say as a young adult, I was very fortunate to be scared stiff of my first coach. She was a very tough woman to get a long with and if your riding wasn't up to par, you got off the horse and took it back to the field because you were "disgracing the animal", and you were only allowed to ride after mucking stalls at 4am and making sure everybody was taken care of. You showed up in proper riding gear, you called the top of the halter the "crown piece" and never the "top of the halter" or the "halter strap", the horses ate before you did etc. I used to hide in the stall and cry! She only showed me once how to put a halter on, and I learned to pay attention. Because I didn't and it took me at least 20min fighting with an unbroke 2y/o trying to get it on his head. Oh yeah, and I was 9 years old Looking back now, I am so happy that I had this very "mean" woman as my coach, because I learned to have high standards for my animals and for myself (and I also got to ride some amazing horses as I got more privileges).
Why this story? As I got older and moved around to different barns, met more people at horse shows and expanded my group of equestrians that I know. I've learned that people who take pride in what they do is very far and few in between. Our youth learns from example, and if their leaders aren't good ones, what are you to expect? The most abusive, underhanded, back stabbing, no morals, no work ethic people that I have met within the industry. Have been adults. And these adults have been role models.
Now not everybody falls into this scenario, but we can't blame our youth when they don't have respectible role models to look towards.
End of rant.
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Courage is being scared to death but saddling up anyway. - John Wayne
It is the generations below this 65 year old that I have a problem with. Example: I taught a client' Morgan to actually extend and drive with his back up. Her husband filmed the change and posted it on Youtube. She knew I was going to post it on a dressage forum so that the correctness could be shown, and I told her she would be attacked. Well it happened and you know what she did, played victim. Said she did not know how the video would be posted and several other false statements.
The kicker is, she took this horse and got state champion in her division after I fixed his muscle problems and improved his performance.
This is typical of the lack of integrity that exists.
Nikki- I'm with you. spirithorse- I'm a little confused by your story. This woman is 65? I was defending the younger generation, and it sounds as though your story backs up the thought that it is not soley young people who are responsible for the lack of integrity of the horse world.
I have worked for some notorious players in my area, however, I now currently work for a barn that is well known and well established. Integrity, honesty, and respect are evident. Each student and boarded is treated with kindness and compassion. Education and respect for the four-footed partner is paramount and I couldn't be happier. I know that there is goodness within this industry soley based on my experience with my current barn. There are bad seeds anywhere you go, unfortunately. It is not unique to the horse world, however, because we are so passionate about these animals, any offences seem all the more personal. Spirithorse, I am sorry for the dismaying circumstance you have endured, people really can be thick.
My business includes buying and selling quite a few horses. It is very sad that so many people approach a business deal very sceptical and untrusting. They are so used to being lied to and taken by 'horse dealers' that it takes a long time to earn their trust (much like young horses who have been abused!) I myself have just learned that a new client out and out lied to me about a horse's vices. The relationship has to be based on mutual trust...how does she expect to work with me now? Really sad state of afairs....
Dante, I'm just wondering how you will handle the situation with the client? Will you tell them that for whatever reason you can not work with them or will you try to get along? If you don't want to say, that is okay -- I am just curious.
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Courage is being scared to death but saddling up anyway. - John Wayne
I wish I could disagree with you about integrity in the realm of horsepeople but I think it is not just here that it seems to be disappearing but in the world in general. Ho Hum!
From USDF's Connection Ms. Bryant wrote in part: "Some critics say that the average ad/am cannot relate to the high-caliber demonstration horses and riders seen at USDF symposia and other educational events." ---- and ---- "The question becomes:Would you pay good money to see a Kyra Kyrklund or a Klaus Balkenhol teach "average" riders on "average" horses?"
This is just another example of integrity disappearing. Any critic milgning riders as average is just another example no integrity. And then the reasonable question is raised....the answer should be that individuals such as these would be more interested in teaching the non-high-caliber riders, so that they are able to enjoy the journey of dressage more completely.
Just my opinion...and it is not aimed at Ms. Bryant...she just presented the proposition.