I set a time each day (well actually five or six days a week) when I am completely focused on my horse. The rest of the day is dedicated to work, family and non-horsey activities. I usually set between 3.5 to 4 hours, which I think is a lot, but some of that is driving back and forth to the barn. during my driving time, I am on the phone catching up with friends or doing a bit of business.

By the way, when I am at the barn, I think of NOTHING other than what is happening right then and there. Being at the barn and riding are remarkable activities for putting you exactly in the moment. Something that very rarely happens in other aspects of my daily life.

I consider myself one of the luckiest people in the world. I got back into horses after a 17 year hiatus. My husband and I have no children, and no desire to procreate. We have three dogs at home and I finally got back into riding when I found a 3.5 morab who stole my heart. After my husband convinced me (I didn't want to let myelf indulge) to buy him, I realized what I had been missing out on. After a couple months, my husband realized that I was telling him the truth when I said horses would monopolize my time. He asked me to find a horse for him too, so we could enjoy barn life together.... with one stipulation - he wanted me to find him a horse bigger than mine (15.1hh). He is 6'2" and wanted a suitable mount. SO I scaled Ontario until I found the perfect horse... an 18.3hh Dapple Grey Percheron. Needless to say my hubby almost fainted on site - not exactly what he had imagined. But I figured a gentle giant was just what would suit my husband and they are great together! Hubby is the best "Barn Husband" ever! He doesn't get there everyday, but he has something to look forward to when he does - and who would complain about having to ride a second horse? Not me, I love the extra work!!!

As far as managing the rest? It'll get done... later.... maybe : )